Four years after her father lost his bid for presidency, Meghan McCain on why the Republican Party is still having a major identity crisis
I found out early on Election Day that Mitt Romney wouldn’t become our next president. I called my father, and he answered sounding somber. He told me that, based on early polling numbers, he didn't see a foreseeable way for Romney to pull it off. There’s a very specific tone of voice my father uses to deliver bad news, and I flashed back to 2008. Still, I must have been in denial, because I pointed out that Ohio and Florida hadn’t been called yet, and we all know that elections are decided in Ohio! My father just sighed and said, “Honey, I’m sorry.” I started to choke back tears.
There was no reason for me to have such an emotional reaction to Romney’s loss. It’s not like he’s a close friend. Looking back to last week, I think that I was mourning something else. For the last four years, writing on this website, I’ve been calling for the Republican Party to come to terms with reality and modernize. Last Tuesday, Mitt Romney lost — and he lost big. As Republicans, we lost again. I felt sad, exhausted, beaten down, and heartbroken. It was the first time that I considered that the Republican Party, which I love so much, might die.
I know there are many out there, especially in the more conservative sphere, that regard me with disdain. I don’t fit into the traditional Republican box that the wingnuts who have hijacked my party think all Republicans should. For the last four years, I’ve been calling for Republicans to stop concentrating on social issues. I am a single woman in my 20s and that fact alone gave me the perspective that I don’t want to regulate a woman’s right to choice. I am pro-life, but because life is complicated, that choice is between a woman and her idea of a higher power. I believe if Roe vs. Wade were repealed, abortion would still go on. I care more about my economy, national security, and fiscal conservatism than I do about what other woman do with their bodies. It’s not my place, and I don’t believe it’s the government’s place, to make such decisions.
I also don’t believe it’s the government’s role to tell gays and lesbians that they can’t be given the same opportunities in American just because of who they love. I think America needs a better immigration policy and immigrants who were brought here illegally as children shouldn’t be deported. I have said all of these things over the past four years and these issues have been important to the demographics that the Democrats carried on Election Day — single women, minorities, and young people.
Times are changing. The face of America is changing and we as Republicans stand at a crossroads. Are we going to accept the changing face of America and change with it? Or are we going to continue to become more isolated and irrelevant? It’s possible to maintain the core values of this party and evolve when it comes to social issues. Quite frankly, I don’t see any other path to success.
I’ve spent most of my adult life fighting for change from inside the Republican Party. We Republicans need to look at the future instead of living in the past. We have to learn from what the last two presidential elections have taught us. We must accept each other and the different opinions within the party instead of trying to cannibalize people that diverge from an arbitrary purity test. I refuse to let the extremists win. We can’t let the Tea Party bully us any longer. We can’t keep worrying about ultraconservative white male voters. At the end of the day, I still believe I’m on the right side of history, and we can’t let this party sink away. We can and we must evolve. I don’t know exactly how yet, but I for one am ready to spend the next four years helping us get there.
And if we don’t move forward, adapt, and become relevant again, the Republican Party isn’t going to survive. It will just continue to alienate more moderate voters like myself. If I don’t see some changes in the next four years, I’m going to consider registering as an Independent in 2016.
Meghan McCain is a columnist for The Daily Beast. Originally from Phoenix, she graduated from Columbia University in 2007. She is a New York Times bestselling children’s author, previously wrote for Newsweek, and created the website McCainBlogette.com. Her most recent book, Dirty Sexy Politics, was published in August 2010.
Article posted on Nov 16, 2012 4:45 AM EST
Video at Source, in which she describes Karl Rove as "an idiot" and "a pretentious blowhard" and warns against "right wing lunatics like Rush Limbaugh and Sean Hannity".
I found out early on Election Day that Mitt Romney wouldn’t become our next president. I called my father, and he answered sounding somber. He told me that, based on early polling numbers, he didn't see a foreseeable way for Romney to pull it off. There’s a very specific tone of voice my father uses to deliver bad news, and I flashed back to 2008. Still, I must have been in denial, because I pointed out that Ohio and Florida hadn’t been called yet, and we all know that elections are decided in Ohio! My father just sighed and said, “Honey, I’m sorry.” I started to choke back tears.
There was no reason for me to have such an emotional reaction to Romney’s loss. It’s not like he’s a close friend. Looking back to last week, I think that I was mourning something else. For the last four years, writing on this website, I’ve been calling for the Republican Party to come to terms with reality and modernize. Last Tuesday, Mitt Romney lost — and he lost big. As Republicans, we lost again. I felt sad, exhausted, beaten down, and heartbroken. It was the first time that I considered that the Republican Party, which I love so much, might die.
I know there are many out there, especially in the more conservative sphere, that regard me with disdain. I don’t fit into the traditional Republican box that the wingnuts who have hijacked my party think all Republicans should. For the last four years, I’ve been calling for Republicans to stop concentrating on social issues. I am a single woman in my 20s and that fact alone gave me the perspective that I don’t want to regulate a woman’s right to choice. I am pro-life, but because life is complicated, that choice is between a woman and her idea of a higher power. I believe if Roe vs. Wade were repealed, abortion would still go on. I care more about my economy, national security, and fiscal conservatism than I do about what other woman do with their bodies. It’s not my place, and I don’t believe it’s the government’s place, to make such decisions.
I also don’t believe it’s the government’s role to tell gays and lesbians that they can’t be given the same opportunities in American just because of who they love. I think America needs a better immigration policy and immigrants who were brought here illegally as children shouldn’t be deported. I have said all of these things over the past four years and these issues have been important to the demographics that the Democrats carried on Election Day — single women, minorities, and young people.
Times are changing. The face of America is changing and we as Republicans stand at a crossroads. Are we going to accept the changing face of America and change with it? Or are we going to continue to become more isolated and irrelevant? It’s possible to maintain the core values of this party and evolve when it comes to social issues. Quite frankly, I don’t see any other path to success.
I’ve spent most of my adult life fighting for change from inside the Republican Party. We Republicans need to look at the future instead of living in the past. We have to learn from what the last two presidential elections have taught us. We must accept each other and the different opinions within the party instead of trying to cannibalize people that diverge from an arbitrary purity test. I refuse to let the extremists win. We can’t let the Tea Party bully us any longer. We can’t keep worrying about ultraconservative white male voters. At the end of the day, I still believe I’m on the right side of history, and we can’t let this party sink away. We can and we must evolve. I don’t know exactly how yet, but I for one am ready to spend the next four years helping us get there.
And if we don’t move forward, adapt, and become relevant again, the Republican Party isn’t going to survive. It will just continue to alienate more moderate voters like myself. If I don’t see some changes in the next four years, I’m going to consider registering as an Independent in 2016.
Meghan McCain is a columnist for The Daily Beast. Originally from Phoenix, she graduated from Columbia University in 2007. She is a New York Times bestselling children’s author, previously wrote for Newsweek, and created the website McCainBlogette.com. Her most recent book, Dirty Sexy Politics, was published in August 2010.
Article posted on Nov 16, 2012 4:45 AM EST
Video at Source, in which she describes Karl Rove as "an idiot" and "a pretentious blowhard" and warns against "right wing lunatics like Rush Limbaugh and Sean Hannity".
j/k
seriously though, hindsight seems to be 20/20 for Republicans who aren't joining the "throw Mitt under the bus" or "BAWWWWWWW OBAMA CHEATED" crowd. I don't know why it was so hard to recognize most of this BEFORE the election. It's not fucking rocket science. Not that I'm complaining, just saying.
e.g. the Republican Governor's convention comments the other day: http://news.yahoo.com/republicans-gop-n
Except Romney tried to focus on the economy too, but everyone kept asking him his position on social issues, and then digging up old speeches (darn liberal media!).
My worry is that they'll find a moderate candidate who will change his mind or not stand up to the more right-wing Congressmen after the election.
ETA: Actually, now that I read that, that probably came out wrong since Mitt wasn't moderate at all during his run but seems to have just tried to be so for the last few weeks as they realized they were seriously in danger of losing it. But yeah, if they actually ran a serious moderate candidate...
Edited at 2012-11-18 06:14 pm (UTC)
You are pro-choice.
That said, the fact that she wanted Romney to win and mourned the fact that he (and the GOP in general) lost means that she hasn't come far enough. If your candidate's obviously a backwards-thinking douchebag STOP SUPPORTING HIM. You don't have to love your party just because it's always been yours and the best way to fight their bullshit ideas would be to vote Democrat or Green or something. No wonder the GOP gets away with all this when even the people who know they're wrong go right along with it
Or, you know, bewteen her and her doctor.
I believe if Roe vs. Wade were repealed, abortion would still go on.
Try 'know it would'. Statistics prove it and you only need to spend five damn minutes on Google to find that out. It's not belief, it's FACT.
I care more about my economy, national security, and fiscal conservatism than I do about what other woman do with their bodies.
These three former things, and especially the way the GOP goes about those things, have a significant impact on the latter, dumbass.
It would be like me being a Conservative and trying to act like I can support/vote for them while being pro-welfare and against education cuts. It just doesn't work.
Absolutely. Yes, the Repubs got smacked down pretty hard in this election, but ... they did in 2008 too, and that didn't stop the Tea Party insurgence into Congress in 2010. If we don't see eight hour lines in the 2014 elections for any reason OTHER than massive election reform (which is highly unlikely), Tea Party-ers WILL gain seats again, and they WILL feel vindicated in not caving to the more moderate Repubs.
Uh, who wants to be the first to tell her she is pro-choice not pro-life if she doesn't want to tell other women what to do?
I can't @ anyone who takes her seriously.