How Objectification Silences Women - The Male Glance As A Psychological Muzzle
10:49 am - 01/15/2010
For something intangible, a glance can be a powerful thing. It can carry the weight of culture and history, it can cause psychological harm, and it can act as a muzzle. Consider the relatively simple act of a man staring at a woman's body. This is such a common part of modern society that most of us rarely stop to think of its consequences, much less investigate it with a scientific lens.
Tamar Saguy is different. Leading a team of Israeli and US psychologists, she has shown that women become more silent if they think that men are focusing on their bodies. They showed that women who were asked to introduce themselves to an anonymous male partner spent far less time talking about themselves if they believed that their bodies were being checked out. Men had no such problem. Nor, for that matter, did women if they thought they were being inspected by another woman.
Saguy's study is one of the first to provide evidence of the social harms of sexual objectification - the act of treating people as "de-personalised objects of desire instead of as individuals with complex personalities". It targets women more often than men. It's apparent in magazine covers showing a woman in a sexually enticing pose, in inappropriate comments about a colleague's appearance, and in unsolicited looks at body parts. These looks were what Saguy focused on.
She recruited 207 students, 114 of whom were women, on the pretence of studying how people communicate using expressions, gestures and vocal cues. Each one sat alone in a room with a recorder and video camera. They had two minutes to introduce themselves to a male or female partner, using a list of topics such as "plans for the future" or "four things you like doing the most". The partner was supposedly sat in the next room and either watching the speaker from the neck up, watching from the neck down, or just listening on audio. The camera was tilted or blocked accordingly.

Saguy found that women talked about themselves for less time than men, but only if they thought they were being visually inspected by a man, and particularly if they thought their bodies were being checked out. They used the full two minutes if they were describing themselves to another woman (no matter where the camera was pointing) or if they were speaking to a man who could hear but not see them. But if their partner was a man watching their bodies, they spoke for just under one-and-a-half minutes. You can see these differences in the graph below (although note that the y-axis starts at 60, a practice I don't particularly like).
Men had no such qualms. They used the full two minutes regardless of whether they were being watched or listened to, and no matter the gender of their partner. The fact that men didn't react in the same way is important. For a start, it shows that it's a man's gaze and not just any downward glance that affects a woman's behaviour. It also puts paid to the false equivalence arguments that are often put forward when discussing gender issues (i.e. "women look at male bodies too").

When the students answered a questionnaire after the experiment, both men and women "felt more like a body than as a real person" if the camera focused on them from the neck down. But only the women were really put off by it. Around 61% of them disliked the body-pointed camera, compared to just 32% who disliked the face-pointing one or 7% who disliked the audio. For the men, 36% disliked the body camera, 42% disliked the face one and 22% disliked the audio.

As Saguy explains, "When a woman believes that a man is focusing on her body, she narrows her presence... by spending less time talking." There are a few possible reasons for this. Saguy suspects that objectification prompts women to align their behaviour with what's expected of them - silent things devoid of other interesting traits. Treat someone like an object, and they'll behave like one. Alternatively, worries about their appearance might simply distract them from the task at hand.
Obviously, this experiment used a fairly artificial scenario. In the real world, social interactions are more complicated and objectification can take place more subtly, with a quick glance rather than a blatantly angled camera.
Even so, these behaviours don't go unnoticed. They could be major problems if the same detrimental silencing effect in Saguy's study applies in real-world situations where being vocal is important for success - job interviews, work meetings, networking sessions, classrooms and more. There will always be hardened lechers among us but often, objectification happens without us thinking about it or becoming aware of it. It's time, perhaps, that more of us did.
Reference: Saguy et al. 2010. Interacting Like a Body: Objectification Can Lead Women to Narrow Their Presence in Social Interactions. Psychological Science source
Personal commentary: I can absolutely relate to this, especially during the 'introductory period' of meeting a guy. If all they're focusing on is your body, what's the point in even saying anything? It doesn't add anything to what they're doing more often than not. It definitely shuts me down and makes me uncomfortable to the point where I need to remove myself from the situation. Being seen not as a potential friend or simple acquaintance initially disturbs something in me. /srs bznz.
This. Great article.
Also, am I the only woman that doesn't check men out? Like...at all. I don't find men physically attractive until after I know their personalities. I can look at someone and be like, 'aww, he's cute' but, no drooling after that.
I also find being checked out extremely creepy. I've been saying, 'men are creepy' a lot lately come to think of it... lol
Edited at 2010-01-15 07:04 pm (UTC)
& I can find guys objectively attractive but I'm not ~really attracted to them until after I've gotten to talk to them. That's often a dealbreaker, haha.
That's a great line, but I'm not sure how much that's true.
Alternatively, worries about their appearance might simply distract them from the task at hand.
I think that's it exactly.
Interesting study.
I'll believe that. The idea of a guy checking me out or having a crush on me makes me uncomfortable; it's mostly because I'm not into anyone though and the idea of someone thinking of me "that way" sort of makes me uncomfortable. For some reason, though, lesbians seem less threatening to me.
Note for next meeting: not trying hard enough.
Hmmm...
The entire article is a very interesting read and it's great to have some quantifiable support for this, but this part really grabs me because now I can't stop wondering why.
And then I wonder about how to counteract this.
I know that when it happens to me I bring attention to the fact that the guy is being a jerk. Sometimes men even do it unconsciously and will be embarrassed enough that it was noticeable and stop the behaviour. Others are just jerks to begin with and won't care either way, but for the most part if the behaviour is brought to attention it stops.
So I'm left thinking the "gaze" is not the problem (though I would categorize being leered at as a problematic sort of gazing), it's earlier social programming about men looking at you that makes women self-conscious.
I do think this is true, although I'd wonder how much of it is also relative to general shyness, or coyness. Not saying they're the overriding reason, but I'm sure it plays a part. IDK, though.
I definitely think that's a factor that was left out in the article.
I never got those arguments of false equivalency though, I can't recall a time I've felt objectified.
i really REALLY hate the gym.
In a situation where I feel more comfortable and am at ease, or with a guy I may be relatively into, sometimes I in fact feel a sense of power when a man is checking me out, but only because I understand how vain some of them are, and how I present more value to them on the basis of my looks alone (it's one of those sad but true things).
What I've learned is that there is a time and place for everything. Typically, being naturally busty, I wear clothes that cover me more, and in truth it does help in being less objectified. Even if they find you pretty, if there is more face that attracts them than exposed body then it feels likes less objectification imo.
But to tell you the truth I feel most uneasy around women. It feels from them a more critical eye where I don't get that from men, and women, initially when seeing me tend to cock an attitude towards me.
I know it's a simple sentence but I find myself agreeing so hard with this.
(Probably TMI, but whatever.) I'm pretty active in my local BDSM community, a community that is primarily heterosexual and focused on the male gaze. I don't back down when someone is checking me out; I actually get in their face about it, whether in a positive way or in a negative way. I think it's because I get defensive about being treated like an object without my permission, and I'll do whatever I have to, to escape that silencing. (I'm also Asian, which makes some people think I'll be more passive than other women. . . um. . . NO.)
This bleeds into "normal life" as well. If someone on a subway is being a creepy asshole to me, I'll call them out on it. I also tend to speak up more in situations that tend to be dominated by men, such as my video game classes.
It's all pretty damn fucked up D:
It's still embarrassing to hear about stuff like this happening.
Of course, this is more outright harassment than just "checking out," but in the club atmosphere checking out goes right to hitting on in 60 seconds or less sometimes. This is just my non-scientific, rather biased observations though. :|
I think this article explained it really well.
this happened to me at a bookstore one time, i was just trying to read a magazine and this guy starts up a conversation with me and starts asking me questions about where i live and what i do and stuff like that. and i start talking less and less until finally i just had to get up and leave the place D: it really bothered me that i had to do that and that at the time i didn't assert myself more and just told him to stfu and let me read in peace!
I think I'm decent with subtle clues, but when a creepy guy or a guy I don't find attractive and seems to have zero personality doesn't get the hint, I tend to give them a nice looooong look up and down and go "...yeah, not interested" and go back to what I was doing. It seems to disarm them.
I spent a few years going to bars 3 to 4 times a week, though, and I've learned to handle that stuff. Drunken creepy guys who don't get hints are the hardest to get rid of.
Oh, but don't worry. Since I dropped the label, the sexuality police came to arrest me ;p.