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A Dad, A facebook note, a laptop and a .45.

11:38 pm - 02/09/2012
The disgruntled teenage daughter of a tech-savvy, gun-toting father just got a very public lesson in respecting one’s elders.

“That right there is your laptop,” the father, named Tommy Jordan, says in a YouTube video while pointing a video camera at a computer on laying in a patch of dirt and grass. “This right here is my .45,” he says, moving a pistol into the frame.

He cocks the weapon and shoots nine exploding hollow-point rounds into the laptop.



Jordan’s 15-year-old daughter apparently wrote a Facebook post complaining about the chores she has to do at home and the overall hassle that her parents make her life. The father took exception to the public airing of grievances, and so decided to exact his own bit of public revenge, according to the video description, as well as Facebook and Reddit posts he appears to have made.

The role of social media in family life has been debated since social networks began to catch on, but Jordan appears to be taking a proactive approach.

In the video, which is titled “Facebook Parenting: For the troubled teen.” and looks to be shot from a tripod, Jordan sits down in a chair outdoors with a computer print-out in hand. He dedicates the recording to his daughter and, “more importantly for all her friends on Facebook who thought that her little rebellious post was cute, and for all you parents out there who think your, you know, kids don’t post bad things on Facebook.”

Jordan says he works in IT for a living (and, indeed, appears to run a company called Twisted Networx) and chastises his daughter for thinking she could hide the note from him with privacy settings. He then reads the purported note aloud after explaining, “since you want to hide it from everyone, I’m going to share it with everybody.”

In the note, the daughter says that she should be paid for the chores she does and her parents overwork her, criticizing them harshly. Jordan says that her complaints are mostly unjustified, and contrasts it to the work he had to do growing up.

After about seven minutes of preamble, he gets up from the chair and plugs the computer full of lead.

Jordan writes in the video description: “Maybe a few kids can take something away from this… If you’re so disrespectful to your parents and yourself as to post this kind of thing on Facebook, you’re deserving of some tough love. Today, my daughter is getting a dose of tough love.”

Mashable has attempted to contact Jordan for further comment, but so far has not received a response.


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angry_chick 10th-Feb-2012 06:13 am (UTC)
She does swear at her parents. A lot. She says at the end of the video something along the lines of them getting old and if they need her help that she won't be around and they'll have to wipe their own asses on their own or some shit like that.
angry_chick 10th-Feb-2012 06:23 am (UTC)
but someone please tell me if she cusses out her parents or wishes any horrible fates on them.

Read what was posted.
tigerdreams 10th-Feb-2012 06:31 am (UTC)
Okay, the cussing out her parents I could see warranting some sort of punishment -- grounding for a reasonable period, temporary loss of privileges, whatever -- IF he hadn't needed to snoop and violate her privacy to find out that she'd done it. I'm sorry, but imo, you don't get to pry open a kid's diary and punish them for what you find there, and you don't get to break into their Facebook account and do the same.
angry_chick 10th-Feb-2012 06:34 am (UTC)
I actually agree with this. The only way that I would be able to disagree is that we see employers doing that with adults with little legal recourse. I think that facebook privacy rights should be better defined for teenagers and adults.
tigerdreams 10th-Feb-2012 06:49 am (UTC)
I agree, though I think that what he did was worse than what employers do with employees; he mentions his IT experience and tech skills, implying that he broke into her account or otherwise circumvented her privacy settings, whereas to my understanding (and correct me if I'm wrong) employers typically just look at things that people are careless enough to make public, or bully employees into giving up passwords (which is also completely not okay, but is another story).
angry_chick 10th-Feb-2012 06:52 am (UTC)
I've seen the latter used. I have to ask my mother what their facebook privacy policy is at her job - she also works in IT, but I'm not sure if she does shit like this or if other people in her department do shit like this.

Edited at 2012-02-10 06:53 am (UTC)
tigerdreams 10th-Feb-2012 07:50 am (UTC)
It's frightening that companies do that. There definitely needs to be some kind of legal regulation in place regarding online privacy.
ohmiya_sg 10th-Feb-2012 07:45 am (UTC)
He said he used the "dog's" Facebook account that she had not set to her "family" filter. She filtered her status to block "family" and "church."
angry_chick 10th-Feb-2012 07:51 am (UTC)
Holy. SHIT.
tigerdreams 10th-Feb-2012 08:11 am (UTC)
Well now I guess she knows to block the dog, at least. =\
romp 10th-Feb-2012 06:34 am (UTC)
She swears on a FB post to her friends in which she rants about her parents and faux-addresses them. Which sounded cathartic to me.

I think that's very different from verbally abusing them. Unless I missed him saying she swears at them.
tigerdreams 10th-Feb-2012 06:52 am (UTC)
I just saw a transcript of her post on Page 2, and that's not really what I think of when I think about cussing someone out; she uses swear words in sentences ("I'm sick of this bullshit," "wiping your own ass," etc.) but doesn't throw abusive words at them, which I guess would be more what I'd consider crossing the line into disrespectful behavior/swearing at someone.
angry_chick 10th-Feb-2012 06:59 am (UTC)
I guess it's a difference of opinion then. I would have been pretty red-hot at reading a letter like that (not red-hot to shoot a fucking laptop, though).

Also, I swear like a sailor on my facebook and my mom STILL calls me out on it - at almost 25 years old and living on my own, and having done it on a computer that I've purchased and a facebook account that I've set up. I can only imagine going off on my mom with a letter like that to this day. We'd be fighting that one out.
squeeful 10th-Feb-2012 07:53 am (UTC)
Yeah, you know, I don't blame her for not wanting to be around when he's old and decrepit. I'd not want to wipe the ass of a control bully who publicly humiliated me and threatened my friends either.
tigerdreams 10th-Feb-2012 08:12 am (UTC)
This, seriously. At this point if she doesn't vanish from his life completely when she turns 18, I'd be surprised, let alone waiting until he needs a nursing home.
evilgmbethy 11th-Feb-2012 08:44 am (UTC)
my mom works with men convicted of domestic violence/child abuse for her job and she always likes to tell the story to her classes about my great uncle Max who was abusive to his wife and his kid, and when he died, no one was sad and his wife became a world traveler who had a great time. Point being, if you treat people like shit all your life, when you're dying/dead, people will not give a shit. She says it always gets to the guys in her class more than anything else, because these sorts of people are extremely self-centered.
gairid 10th-Feb-2012 10:18 am (UTC)
she does swear at her parents. A lot. She says at the end of the video something along the lines of them getting old and if they need her help that she won't be around and they'll have to wipe their own asses on their own or some shit like that.

Gee, I wonder where she learned about ragey, entitled behavior? Maybe listening to her ragey, entitled Dad? Her behavior is crappy but so is his; she is 15 --he is the supposed adult but it's hard to tell the difference. Perhaps talking about it with her first might have been a little more productive, or just confiscating the laptop for a period of time---but destruction of personal property doesn't really come across as a way to come to any kind of understanding.
emofordino 10th-Feb-2012 01:22 pm (UTC)
this is exactly how i feel. besides the fact that this is controlling and bullying behavior to begin with, ranting online about his daughter and shooting the possessions that she paid for with a .45 as a punishment for ranting online about him? yeah, that sends a wonderful message and shows who is really the adult in this situation. -.-
ceilidh 10th-Feb-2012 04:31 pm (UTC)
Wow. That is way more than regular teenage whining.
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