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Guatemalan mom loses son to US couple

9:36 am - 07/19/2012

Tug-of-Love: Immigrant Mom Loses Effort to Regain Son Given to US Parents





By BRIAN ROSS and ANGELA M. HILL | ABC News

In a controversial case that involved the rights of illegal immigrants and their young children, a Guatemalan mother lost her effort today to get back the five-year old son who was taken away from her after her arrest on immigration charges and put up for adoption in Missouri despite her objections.

A Missouri judge ruled the boy should stay with the Missouri couple, Melinda and Seth Moser, who took him into their home five years ago while his mother was in federal custody, where she attempted in vain to oppose the adoption proceedings.




"Nobody could help me because I don't speak English," said Encarnacion Bail Romero in an interview with ABC News.

The child, born as Carlos but renamed Jamison by the Mosers, has been with his adoptive parents in Carthage, Missouri since the age of 11 months.

The judge said the biological mother had no rights to even see her child, according to the mother's lawyer.

The ruling today reaffirmed the original decision by another Missouri judge who terminated the parental rights of Bail Romero, stating that "illegally smuggling herself into the country is not a lifestyle that can provide any stability for the child."

The Missouri Supreme Court called the initial decision a "travesty of justice" and ordered a review of the case by a second judge.

Appearing outside the courtroom with tears in her eyes, the biological mother declined to comment.

Her lawyer, Curtis Woods, said he would appeal the decision of the judge who he said ruled Encarnacion Bail Romero's parental rights had been terminated because she had abandoned him while she was incarcerated.

"I am very disappointed in the decision," said Woods.

The judge handed down the decision in a courtroom closed to all but the parties involved and their lawyers. There was no translator provided by the court today for the Guatemalan woman, who speaks only a little English.

The ruling allows the formal adoption proceedings by the Mosers to proceed.

The Mosers left the court without speaking to reporters, but they had previously argued in court that they could best provide for the boy and that they were the only parents that he knew.

"I could not love him more, had he come out of me physically," Melinda Moser said in an earlier interview.

The biological mother was arrested in 2007 on an immigration raid at a chicken processing plant in Missouri and has not seen her son since.

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How is this even legal??

ew_younerd 19th-Jul-2012 06:33 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I just see it as this gross possessiveness paired with racism and the fucked up concept of a nuclear family. Bluh. Parenting is totes a zero sum game and if the kid loves their other parent too they can't possibly love us!!!
pandaseal 19th-Jul-2012 06:38 pm (UTC)
Shit, I need to go tell my brother to stop visiting his bio family before he tears our parents apart inside.
hashishinahooka 19th-Jul-2012 08:26 pm (UTC)
The funny thing is in minority families, there are tons of non-legal open adoptions. People take in other people's children when the bio folks are unable to care for them. They go back to their parents. Some of them go back and forth as needed. But they usually maintain relationships with all parties that help raise them. An open adoption will not harm anybody. Humans are social creatures. The more people in a child's life, the better!
angelofdeath275 19th-Jul-2012 10:12 pm (UTC)
right?! This is what i saw all the time was a kid and when I conflicted with what I saw on (white controlled) TV, its was a real headcratcher
baked_goldfish 19th-Jul-2012 10:33 pm (UTC)
Yes, this. A lot of my cousins, nieces & nephews moved or move back and forth as minors, no big deal. White people apparently feel the need to totally own everything and get jealous if they can't, right on down to owning children. That's the only way I can understand their view of adoption.
pandaseal 19th-Jul-2012 10:44 pm (UTC)
I've been saying this for years to all the people who say "Black people don't adopt." Thank you for spelling it out.
hashishinahooka 19th-Jul-2012 11:01 pm (UTC)
That's why it was heartbreaking when my nephews were taken away. They didn't even ask if anyone in our family would step up, which they would.

The problem with my nephews are they are phenotypically White, and they are healthy. They are very adoptable. When my sister tried to adopt them, she, my mother, and my brothers were met with racism. First thing they said to my sister? "I think we have the wrong case. These children are White."

I hope one day to find my nephews, even if it's while they're adults, and let them know that they have a bio family who loves them dearly.
pandaseal 19th-Jul-2012 11:31 pm (UTC)
Oh Lord, I am so sorry that happened to your family. I have no words...
romp 20th-Jul-2012 12:19 am (UTC)
God, I'm sorry. It's my understanding that family is tried first but that's textbook, I suppose, and not reality.

Just another way to break down families of colour.
ebay313 20th-Jul-2012 09:17 pm (UTC)
Yeah, definitely doesn't work how it's supposed to in reality. The same thing happens with Native American families even though there is a LAW against it.
ebay313 20th-Jul-2012 09:12 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry that happened to your family, that is terrible.
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