It could be terrorism, but we don’t yet know. It could be someone who has a beef with Sikhs. It’s too early to talk about gun control. These statements ran in a continuous loop through my head yesterday, even when I wasn’t watching coverage of the mass shooting at an active gurdwara in a suburb of Milwaukee. Throughout the day, the hollowness in my solar plexus signaled grief and the tightness in my throat signaled panic, and I felt deep, deep resistance to the notion of saying anything about it. What is there to say that isn’t a cliché?
Details are going to emerge in the coming days, but I already know what they’ll amount to. A white man, in his 40’s, nursing resentment over 9/11 for more than a decade, planned for a long time to kill some “enemies.” The guns will turn out to be legally acquired, or if not, so accessible as to make the law meaningless. The man will turn out to be mad. In the debate, people will argue that the cause is racism…no, it’s gun control…no, it’s mental health. It is impossible for us to navigate the deadly tangle of all three.
The Sikh community has been thrown into high visibility under the saddest possible circumstances. Sikhs are generally of Indian origin, practicing a monotheistic religion in temples called gurdwaras since the 16th century. Sikhism is not a sect of Hinduism or Islam. Sikhs grow their hair as a signal of their devotion to God. The religion emphasizes unity and peace among all people.
I’ve known many Sikhs, though there are only 750,000 in the U.S. I’m often struck by how devout and considerate they are, regardless of age or gender. I have learned a lot by following the Sikh Coalition, as well as United Sikhs and the Sikh Activist Network. Sikhs have been a prime target for racist violence since 9/11, and this is not the first murder of a Sikh by a misinformed, angry white man. Earlier this year, 92 members of Congress pressed the FBI to start counting hate crimes against Sikhs.
Only CNN attempted continuous coverage yesterday, and I’m grateful that they tried. Yet that coverage was so generally devoid of Sikh voices that it just reminded me how ill-equipped the media are. The “expert” they turned to most often was the sincere but inadequate Eric Marrapodi of CNN’s Belief Blog. He kept saying that Sikhs were not Muslims, but were often mistaken for Muslims and “unfairly targeted.” The first time he said it, I thought, wow, that’s unfortunate phrasing and he’ll stop using it after he realizes or someone points out the implication that Muslims can be “fairly” targeted. But no one ever got a clue. Islamaphobia was never mentioned, much less condemned for the ignorance and violence that it spreads.
Murderous insanity can infect any community, and maybe that leads people to call these senseless acts of random violence. But of course they are neither senseless nor random, and the vast majority of such incidents here involve white men. Racism holds a terrible logic, for a concept with no grounding whatsoever in science or morality, yet too many white people don’t see any patterns.
I think about the young woman who taught me to speak English in a tiny rural schoolhouse, the widow who gave me my first peanut butter and jelly sandwich and the father of my best friend who was so kind to me while I was growing up. Yesterday, did they quietly hope that the shooter wasn’t one of theirs? Probably not, even though the link between violence, masculinity and whiteness is well-established. White men seem to be in deep crisis, and white people would do well to deal with it, as Tim Wise points out again and again. I implore of my white friends, when your nutty uncle or classmate goes off about some set of foreigners, you must make a fuss, cause a family crisis, become unpopular, speak up. We cannot do this for you.
I despair for our country on days like these. How long before paranoia and fear, recast in the language of moral fortitude (stand your ground!), cut so deeply into the beautiful American friendliness, open-mindedness, and generosity that I have grown up with? How many Trayvon Martins, Brisenia Floreses and Balbir Singh Sodhis must there be before white folks question whether suspicion of brown skin is justified? Must I arm my mother and send her to the shooting range if she wants to wear a sari in public? In two weeks, 20 families have lost a beloved member. Are we going to have 20 more every month for the foreseeable future?
There are things we need to do.
We must limit gun access. Gun proponents recite “guns don’t kill people, people kill people” as fluently as immigration opponents cry out “illegal means illegal.” Gary Younge pointed out on July 20, after Aurora, that it’s never a good time to talk about gun control in this country, and people are dying while we refuse to act. That has to change.
Americans need a real education about the world. If our public schools aren’t going to provide it, then it needs to take place on TV, in churches, in the newspaper.
We need to make sure that the mental health system is well funded and progressive enough to provide support wherever it is needed.
But none of that will be likely unless, in our grief and fear, we also muster up clarity and outrage. Right now—before the public debate is recaptured by questions of which politician said what to whom.
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I'm not sure how she plans on sending white supremacists in for mental health evals but I do think there would be fewer of them if we worked on poverty, critical thinking, and child welfare.
Details are going to emerge in the coming days, but I already know what they’ll amount to. A white man, in his 40’s, nursing resentment over 9/11 for more than a decade, planned for a long time to kill some “enemies.” The guns will turn out to be legally acquired, or if not, so accessible as to make the law meaningless. The man will turn out to be mad. In the debate, people will argue that the cause is racism…no, it’s gun control…no, it’s mental health. It is impossible for us to navigate the deadly tangle of all three.
The Sikh community has been thrown into high visibility under the saddest possible circumstances. Sikhs are generally of Indian origin, practicing a monotheistic religion in temples called gurdwaras since the 16th century. Sikhism is not a sect of Hinduism or Islam. Sikhs grow their hair as a signal of their devotion to God. The religion emphasizes unity and peace among all people.
I’ve known many Sikhs, though there are only 750,000 in the U.S. I’m often struck by how devout and considerate they are, regardless of age or gender. I have learned a lot by following the Sikh Coalition, as well as United Sikhs and the Sikh Activist Network. Sikhs have been a prime target for racist violence since 9/11, and this is not the first murder of a Sikh by a misinformed, angry white man. Earlier this year, 92 members of Congress pressed the FBI to start counting hate crimes against Sikhs.
Only CNN attempted continuous coverage yesterday, and I’m grateful that they tried. Yet that coverage was so generally devoid of Sikh voices that it just reminded me how ill-equipped the media are. The “expert” they turned to most often was the sincere but inadequate Eric Marrapodi of CNN’s Belief Blog. He kept saying that Sikhs were not Muslims, but were often mistaken for Muslims and “unfairly targeted.” The first time he said it, I thought, wow, that’s unfortunate phrasing and he’ll stop using it after he realizes or someone points out the implication that Muslims can be “fairly” targeted. But no one ever got a clue. Islamaphobia was never mentioned, much less condemned for the ignorance and violence that it spreads.
Murderous insanity can infect any community, and maybe that leads people to call these senseless acts of random violence. But of course they are neither senseless nor random, and the vast majority of such incidents here involve white men. Racism holds a terrible logic, for a concept with no grounding whatsoever in science or morality, yet too many white people don’t see any patterns.
I think about the young woman who taught me to speak English in a tiny rural schoolhouse, the widow who gave me my first peanut butter and jelly sandwich and the father of my best friend who was so kind to me while I was growing up. Yesterday, did they quietly hope that the shooter wasn’t one of theirs? Probably not, even though the link between violence, masculinity and whiteness is well-established. White men seem to be in deep crisis, and white people would do well to deal with it, as Tim Wise points out again and again. I implore of my white friends, when your nutty uncle or classmate goes off about some set of foreigners, you must make a fuss, cause a family crisis, become unpopular, speak up. We cannot do this for you.
I despair for our country on days like these. How long before paranoia and fear, recast in the language of moral fortitude (stand your ground!), cut so deeply into the beautiful American friendliness, open-mindedness, and generosity that I have grown up with? How many Trayvon Martins, Brisenia Floreses and Balbir Singh Sodhis must there be before white folks question whether suspicion of brown skin is justified? Must I arm my mother and send her to the shooting range if she wants to wear a sari in public? In two weeks, 20 families have lost a beloved member. Are we going to have 20 more every month for the foreseeable future?
There are things we need to do.
We must limit gun access. Gun proponents recite “guns don’t kill people, people kill people” as fluently as immigration opponents cry out “illegal means illegal.” Gary Younge pointed out on July 20, after Aurora, that it’s never a good time to talk about gun control in this country, and people are dying while we refuse to act. That has to change.
Americans need a real education about the world. If our public schools aren’t going to provide it, then it needs to take place on TV, in churches, in the newspaper.
We need to make sure that the mental health system is well funded and progressive enough to provide support wherever it is needed.
But none of that will be likely unless, in our grief and fear, we also muster up clarity and outrage. Right now—before the public debate is recaptured by questions of which politician said what to whom.
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I'm not sure how she plans on sending white supremacists in for mental health evals but I do think there would be fewer of them if we worked on poverty, critical thinking, and child welfare.
Hear, hear. Across the board, though- we need more of that anywhere there's widespread poverty!
I might buy the 'mental illness' thing IF the shooter was a combat veteran, but from what another article I read said, he was stateside for his entire deployment. So he has no excuse for being a murderous hatemonger.
Edited at 2012-08-06 10:02 pm (UTC)
3. Ancedata: I completed seven years active service. I never left the country during that period; I have fairly severe PTSD w/depression as a result of my last posting and attitudes like yours are why I struggle to access the services that are suppose to help me and to explain my issues to family and friends.
*die naturally of old age or, you know, unfortunate accident. I am not advocating murder.
Edited at 2012-08-06 10:02 pm (UTC)
Not that they're isolated in their subculture. Plenty are in law enforcement and the military. Point is, I think new young ones are being recruited all the time.
Edited at 2012-08-06 11:50 pm (UTC)
Seriously, if you can come up with a fuss to make that is actually going to work I am all for this. But I don't think it's news to mentally unstable white supremacist assholes that most people disagree with them and think they're a couple of cheese sticks short of an appetizer sampler, you know? They've already baked that into their worldview. And frankly, as far as a crisis of white masculinity goes for the people who are feeling that (which isn't all white men at all) the only thing that will make that go away is having some 'out class' to lord power over in a socially sanctioned way, be that women, gays or brown people. And I don't see that happening any time soon.
And a few changed tunes, over the years when people started calling them on their shit. My mom does NOT use those terms anymore, she's quite checked herself well, when she snapped at a van that cut her off and called them "effin p-kis!" and I said "no, that is NOT an acceptable term in society, please do not use it, and PS, you were in the wrong." She looked fairly gobsmacked. She hasn't done that since.
I get that its difficult to confront some people, and some of my family are so knee deep in their own baked bias, but I suspect the writers point is we are afraid to unsettle that person by calling them on their bigotry. Granted there's people that can't be educated out of the assholery in their head. I'm always amazed when people my age exhibit such attitudes because I wonder where it comes from.
And I'm not sure how baked into their beliefs the young ones are. Many grow out of it, probably because they aren't able to live in a cocoon of White Pride reading, music, friends, etc. A couple guys I knew told me that the Holocaust was a Hollywood production (a big proponent of that idea lived in our town) so I countered that my father had opened up a concentration camp. That was the end of that topic, you know?
Limiting gun access is certainly a major part of it, but what's even more important (and doesn't require legislation) is starting a conversation about the gun culture in this country. And making sure that discussion doesn't get sidetracked or hijacked by gun nuts claiming the Second Amendment gives them the right to do damn well what they please because it's in the Constitution. I don't really get why no one in the Obama Administration has gently prodded this issue. Well, actually, I do know, election coming up, but yeah. =\
YES!
We must limit gun access. Gun proponents recite “guns don’t kill people, people kill people” as fluently as immigration opponents cry out “illegal means illegal.”
YES, PLEASE!! And I can't believe people are dumb enough to say that about immigration. Oh, wait, I can.
I think it's a variety of reasons. 9/11 being one of them. The resulting war, the recession, people unable to find jobs, losing their homes, the immigration issue and fears that they were losing their jobs to illegal immigrants, the election of our country's very first African-American President... all these factors make it ripe for frustrated people to look for someone to blame. Some people struggle on and hope things will be better soon, while some join hate groups, and become united in their prejudice and hate against a perceived enemy.
People like Mitt Romney aren't doing anything to make things better either. Instead, they're stirring the pot, for instance, trying to paint President Obama as a foreigner, and un-American. And don't get me started on people like Arpaio.
It's a very sad state of affairs. If we allow ourselves to be ruled by fear and paranoia, becoming suspicious of a neighbor of ours just because their skin color is different, then we'll have difficulties seeing everyone as American. This country is a melting pot of people from different cultures, creeds and beliefs. We should learn to accept our differences, not fear them, or use those differences to foster divisiveness.
Public education is one way to do it, cultural exchange events are another. It won't immediately stop the hate from hate groups, but it's a start, and we do have to start somewhere.
I wonder if other countries have done this? They only send refugees to a town where there's already a strong immigrant/newcomer society but I think it then builds because the town is seen as a safe place to be for other immigrants. Maybe. I hope.
Sorry to go on: I hadn't thought of that side-effect until your post.