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LGBTQ high school kicks off first full school year in midtown Phoenix

10:05 pm - 08/10/2012
LGBTQ high school kicks off first full school year in midtown Phoenix

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By Alicia Canales

Q High, a LGBTQ-friendly high school, will open on Tuesday for their first full year of classes. One n Ten, a LGBTQ youth program in Phoenix, will sponsor the online high school.

Johnny Hernandez cut class to the point that her former school told her not to come back. While meeting with another high school, the 16-year-old was told she had to change her clothing in order to register.

Her clothes met the dress code requirement — the school’s issue was that Hernandez is a male and wears women’s clothing.

“In my head I feel like I’m a girl,” Hernandez said. “I’m just not in the right body.”

At the same meeting, Hernandez heard about Q High, a high school that opened this year near Third Street in midtown Phoenix. The new high school is for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning students along with straight allied youth.



Q High is a part of One n Ten, a nonprofit organization that focuses on assisting LGBTQ youth ages 14-24. With three satellite locations in the Valley and a youth center in Phoenix, One n Ten holds weekly discussion groups and offers programs to help youths with “self‐expression, self‐acceptance, leadership development and healthy life choices,” according to the official website.

“We noticed through our database that a high population of our youth had either dropped out, are home schooled or work from home on another online high-school program,” One n Ten program manager Stacey Jay Cavaliere said in an email. “We knew there was a need for this so we went forward with plans to address that need.”

Q High appealed to Hernandez because “coping with the judgment” has been the hardest part for her.

At five years old, Hernandez said she began having crushes on boys. Growing up, she said people physically fought her because they didn’t like that she was gay. Three years ago, she came out to her family as transgender. The majority of her family doesn’t like who she is, she said. Hernandez also feels she is “double-profiled” because of her Mexican background.

“If people don’t like Mexicans, they aren’t going to like me, and if they don’t like gays, they aren’t going to like me,” Hernandez said. “I don’t care what the world thinks of me. I am who I am and I’m not going to change for anybody.”

Hernandez’s cousin, Monica Chavez, said several times that they have been out walking and overheard people nearby discuss her Hernandez’s transgender appearance.

“They’d be confused and ask if he was a girl or a boy or they’d laugh at the way he dressed. It made me mad,” Chavez said. “I didn’t stay quiet; they were asking if he was a boy or a girl so I answered their question. They shouldn’t be laughing about it or asking other people as if they know him.”

Chavez, 16, will also be joining Hernandez Tuesday for the first day of school at 3660 N. Third St. The day will also mark the first full school year of Q High. Chavez’s reasons differ from her cousin’s.

Four years ago, Chavez was diagnosed with limb-girdle muscular dystrophy, meaning her leg muscles deteriorate as she grows older. She began using a wheelchair and wanted to attend a school with a smaller population.

“Ever since I’ve been in my wheelchair, I’ve been scared of what people think or if they’ll stare, and it bothers me if they stare,” Chavez said. “I just get nervous. I’m looking forward to (starting Q High) but at the same time I’m not.”

Donald Smith, site supervisor of Q High, said the goal is to “create a safe, inclusive environment where our LGBT youth and straight allies have a safe place to go and get their education.”

“My main goal is to make them feel like a teenager, like a youth,” Smith said. “It’s just one part of your identity; it’s not who you are, it’s not what defines you.”

Q High is a public charter school through the Arizona Virtual Academy and funded by the Arizona Department of Education. All classes are online and academic requirements are determined by the department.

Smith, 28, said Arizona Virtual Academy tutors will be available if students need help with any academic struggles. Counselors will also be available at the youth center for students who are looking for additional support.

Attendance will be taken in order to enforce that the 17 students attend class Tuesdays through Fridays from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. to meet the weekly minimum requirement of 25 hours online.

Smith plans to work with downtown facilities, like the YMCA, to incorporate field trips for physical activities or performing arts. He also wants the students to create a school mascot.

“My whole vision is to create an environment where they feel like they are in their own school community and not just coming to sit in front of a computer for seven hours on end,” Smith said.

Hernandez and Chavez have talked with Smith and said they are excited to meet him on the first day of class.

“I just want to be around more people I can relate to and be in a more comfortable environment for me,” Hernandez said. “I’m very excited for the extra support and extra help.”

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tiddlywinks103 11th-Aug-2012 06:41 am (UTC)
What beautiful idea, cut out the bigots and let these kids get on with their lives and education. If the public schools/government won't step up and protect their students, take them out of the game, and reap the benefits of well-adjusted, intelligent human beings who feel safe.
freezer 11th-Aug-2012 06:48 am (UTC)
Dammit! Wrong post! (Stuid IE...)

Edited at 2012-08-11 06:49 am (UTC)
romp 11th-Aug-2012 06:52 am (UTC)
Can you imagine? I can barely imagine what that would be like. The safety and increased self-acceptance. I get dizzy thinking of it.

So happy for the kids who have this!
fynoda 11th-Aug-2012 10:37 am (UTC)
I can't believe this happening in Arizona, of all places.

I wonder if this school accepts asexual students.
zombieroadtrip 11th-Aug-2012 11:22 am (UTC)
They accept both straight and gay students so yeah.
asrana 11th-Aug-2012 09:12 pm (UTC)
I find this a confusing comment. Fynoda wasn't asking whether they accept bisexuals, but asexuals. It's be nice to think that their open, inclusive philosophy would mean they did but in my bitter experience, this is rarely actually the case. it's fair enough to query it, and the answer isn't obvious. Being the minority even within the minority is petty tough if they aren't accepting of atypical difference.
zombieroadtrip 11th-Aug-2012 09:20 pm (UTC)
With the exception of aromantics, asexuals fall under the straight or gay label (or bi/pan), so why wouldn't they be included alongside other gay or straight students?
temperance_k 11th-Aug-2012 09:24 pm (UTC)
I mean, you can be straight or gay while also being asexual. Hetero-romantics and homo-romantics and aromantics.

But regarding whether they accept asexuals, it seems obvious that they do. While the article calls the high school an LGBTQ high school, it seems obvious that they accept everyone--except bigots. Basically, it's a safe space for LGBTQ people that's also a high school. They accept everyone as long as you aren't going to discriminate against your classmates, it seems.
zombieroadtrip 11th-Aug-2012 09:53 pm (UTC)
Exactly, they said they accept straight allies so that tells me it's pretty much open to all.
aschvanzandt 12th-Aug-2012 03:28 pm (UTC)
ahahahfjdk oh sweet jesus
zombieroadtrip 13th-Aug-2012 02:00 am (UTC)
I was really trying to stop the asexual martyrdom before it started :(
aschvanzandt 13th-Aug-2012 02:40 am (UTC)
you secure that shit, soldier
ntensity 11th-Aug-2012 02:33 pm (UTC)
I thought the same thing about this happening in AZ! So glad it's happening though.
sparkindarkness 11th-Aug-2012 11:25 am (UTC)
This sounds like such a heavenly place for our kids - more of these! It's sad they're so needed, and hopefully one day they won't be - until them I'm beyond ecstatic there's a refuge for these kids

Edited at 2012-08-11 11:26 am (UTC)
freuen 11th-Aug-2012 12:34 pm (UTC)
This is so, so needed here in Arizona. While I was lucky that the response to my coming out was congratulatory and accepting, that is most definitely not the case for many LGBTQIA students in Arizona, especially in the western and eastern suburbs of Phoenix, which have large religious populations.

This makes me so happy! =D

[Edited for misspelling.]

Edited at 2012-08-11 12:36 pm (UTC)
roseofjuly 11th-Aug-2012 01:51 pm (UTC)
It's kind of sad that there's even a need for an LGBTQ-friendly high school, but I'm glad there is one in Phoenix. We have one in NYC, too (Harvey Milk High School).
socialshrapnel 11th-Aug-2012 02:31 pm (UTC)
I would've loved to have gone there!

The only thing that worries me is that when these kids apply for jobs...wont some bigots discriminate once they see the school name? I hope it's not the case but you know...people.
bestdaywelived 11th-Aug-2012 06:41 pm (UTC)
Yeah they would definitely lose the choice about whether or not to out themselves on job applications, etc. after attending.
rylee900 11th-Aug-2012 09:54 pm (UTC)
My first thought as well.
sihaya09 11th-Aug-2012 03:06 pm (UTC)
This is awesome, and until the climate changes in our country where we don't NEED schools like this, I hope more states open up these schools.

I got really, really lucky with my high school. I went to a public school that's a charter for the performing and fine arts, and we had a LOT of GLBT students. It was totally normal to see boyfriends and girlfriends in the hall, and our trans students were able to use whichever bathroom they preferred. Considering I come from a family that's... well, let's just say full of bigots and assholes... it shaped me in ways that are crucial to being a decent human being.
nicosian 11th-Aug-2012 03:52 pm (UTC)
Pretty awesome.;D

On one hand it's "we need separate safe places, instead of teaching people to be compassionate and respectful?" but then I remember being slammed into walls and being pelted with rocks and sexually grabbed and groped in HS ( for being openly bi) so frankly, whatever, let the kids get an education without fear for at least 8 hours that they'll get their head smashed in.

( yes, i reported the stuff. No, not much was done. Knowing what I know now..its small central alberta, it was a hotbed of bigots and racists when I left, and well, I've not gone back for a reason.)
tabaqui 11th-Aug-2012 04:52 pm (UTC)
Excellent.
fm_gatekeeper 11th-Aug-2012 08:05 pm (UTC)
the school’s issue was that Hernandez is a male and wears women’s clothing

no

do not pass go

do not collect anything whatsoever

the school sounds great and everything but I'm really side-eying the article for this bit
asrana 11th-Aug-2012 09:15 pm (UTC)
YES thank you, well maybe not the article itself as they do refer to Hernandez as female but dude the "allied" cousin! With friends like these, who needs enemies??
rylee900 11th-Aug-2012 09:51 pm (UTC)
I interpreted that as 'is physically male and wears women's clothing', considering the article does refer to her as 'she'. The cousin though...

Edited at 2012-08-11 09:53 pm (UTC)
martyfan 11th-Aug-2012 10:56 pm (UTC)
“They’d be confused and ask if he was a girl or a boy or they’d laugh at the way he dressed. It made me mad,” Chavez said. “I didn’t stay quiet; they were asking if he was a boy or a girl so I answered their question. They shouldn’t be laughing about it or asking other people as if they know him.”

And you shouldn't be misgendering her either, so you don't really have room to talk.
seamouse 13th-Aug-2012 12:43 am (UTC)
I get that pronouns are a very important factor in gender topic discussions, but I wouldn't come down on people too hard for using the wrong pronoun unless I knew for a fact that they knew and were ignoring the pronoun(al? ic?) preference of the person to whom they are referring. Not everybody has had Polite Pronouns in LGBTQ Related Discussions 101 yet.
I'm delighted that a safe place is being opened for students who could face hostility elsewhere.
I also hope that the school has security precautions just in case some nutjob sees this as an opportunity for targeted violence.
martyfan 13th-Aug-2012 12:45 am (UTC)
The person quoted is Hernandez's cousin. The article explicitly says she came out to her family.
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